{"id":15142786,"date":"2026-06-05T21:22:23","date_gmt":"2026-06-06T01:22:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/i-couldnt-tell-him-why-we-had-to-break-up\/"},"modified":"2026-06-05T22:08:12","modified_gmt":"2026-06-06T02:08:12","slug":"i-couldnt-tell-him-why-we-had-to-break-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/i-couldnt-tell-him-why-we-had-to-break-up\/","title":{"rendered":"I Couldn\u2019t Tell Him Why We Had to Break Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When my young cousin\u2019s girlfriend cheated on him, I wrestled with ghosts of my own.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inmi-source\">Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2026\/06\/05\/style\/modern-love-infidelity-couldnt-tell-him-why-we-had-to-break-up.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Lifestyle \u2013 NYT Style<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When my young cousin\u2019s girlfriend cheated on him, I wrestled with ghosts of my own.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15142788,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15142786","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x.jpg",1800,1801,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-620x620.jpg",620,620,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-768x768.jpg",768,768,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-940x941.jpg",940,941,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-1536x1536.jpg",1536,1536,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x.jpg",1800,1801,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-998x665.jpg",998,665,true],"ignition_item":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-670x446.jpg",670,446,true],"ignition_item_lg":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-1340x894.jpg",1340,894,true],"ignition_article_media":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-510x510.jpg",510,510,true],"ignition_minicart_item":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-160x160.jpg",160,160,true],"profile_24":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-24x24.jpg",24,24,true],"profile_48":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-48x48.jpg",48,48,true],"profile_96":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-96x96.jpg",96,96,true],"profile_150":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"profile_300":["https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/15142786-07st-modern-stone-mediumsquareat3x-300x300.jpg",300,300,true]},"author_info":{"display_name":"news.iNthacity","author_link":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/author\/atombo\/"},"category_info":"<a href=\"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/articles\/lifestyle\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Life<\/a>","tag_info":"Life","comment_count":"0","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15142786","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15142786"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15142786\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15142787,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15142786\/revisions\/15142787"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15142788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15142786"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15142786"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inthacity.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15142786"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}